Today, Baby S is one. One year old. One whole year of holding, cuddling, snuggling and kissing. One whole year of being in my heart. 365 days of living and breathing... and breastfeeding!
So where are we at this huge time marker on the breastfeeding front? In a very different place than we were 364 days ago, for sure. Back then, I was still unsure, not so confident, and scared. Now? Breastfeeding has made me feel better about who I am. I have spent 365 days feeding my baby MYSELF. Nourishing her MYSELF. I have KEPT A BABY ALIVE. That is bad ass!
Sure, I've had support, but when it comes down to it, I did it. Together we have navigated those fears and anxieties to come to a point where breastfeeding is the most natural, easy thing in the world. It has given me so much more confidence in myself, period.
330 days ago, we were breastfeeding pretty much around the clock, spending hours at a time in marathon nursing sessions on the couch. Now? The sessions are pretty spread out. We wake up and nurse. Maybe a little snack mid-morning (more like she sucks for a couple of seconds between playing). A little after lunch suckle and then I'm off to work. She eats 2-4 ounces while I'm gone, and then nurses when I get home for a while. Some nursing after bath time before bed... and then anywhere from once to once an hour overnight (I think depending on her teething schedule). The more she eats, the less she nurses- but she's not giving it up anytime soon!
Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Saturday, January 28, 2012
breastfeeding with a machete
What an incredible image! From the Worldwide Movement Against the Belo Monte Dam Project in Amazonia.
The Belo Monte hydroelectric dam project on Xingu river in Brasil is in danger of destroying more Amazon Rainforest and indigenous tribes. Click on the link above to access the facebook page or check out the Amazon Watch page for more information.
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Friday, December 16, 2011
Thursday, December 8, 2011
words
This post is part of the Breastfeeding Blog Hop hosted by Life With Levi, The Slacker Mom and Diary of a Devil Dog Wife.
The topic of this week's Breastfeeding Blog Hop is words of encouragement- what encouragement have I received or what can I say for other breastfeeding mothers?
I think some of the best words that I heard when I was having issues breastfeeding Toddler B were "I had problems with breastfeeding too" and "breastfeeding's not always easy". I can't tell you how isolated I felt when at first all I was hearing was other moms telling me how easy it was for them, about how their milk let down so fast, blah blah blah. Their Niagra Falls-like supply, how their baby latched on before it was even out of the womb, how I just needed to put my baby to the breast (like I had never thought to try that... ). I felt like such an outcast, the worst mother in the world- not even fit to be a mother, obviously, since I couldn't do what came so naturally to every other woman under the sun.
The topic of this week's Breastfeeding Blog Hop is words of encouragement- what encouragement have I received or what can I say for other breastfeeding mothers?
I think some of the best words that I heard when I was having issues breastfeeding Toddler B were "I had problems with breastfeeding too" and "breastfeeding's not always easy". I can't tell you how isolated I felt when at first all I was hearing was other moms telling me how easy it was for them, about how their milk let down so fast, blah blah blah. Their Niagra Falls-like supply, how their baby latched on before it was even out of the womb, how I just needed to put my baby to the breast (like I had never thought to try that... ). I felt like such an outcast, the worst mother in the world- not even fit to be a mother, obviously, since I couldn't do what came so naturally to every other woman under the sun.
Friday, December 2, 2011
interview and giveaway: faith hope trick print and digital design
What gets you through motherhood? No, not the fun, cuddly times- that's easy. I'm talking about the hard times. The sleepless nights, the crabby fights with the partner, being covered with poop as you're trying to get out of the house to work, the leaky boobs and crying babies.
Sometimes we need to look at something that inspires us and makes us smile a bit. That's why I'm loving the print designs from the shop Faith Hope Trick Print and Digital Design. Along with birth announcements and party invitations, owner and mother Amy Nucera creates prints that delight the eyes and the mind. I was drawn in by her lovely breastfeeding inspired prints.
Today Amy shares with us her personal experiences with breastfeeding and some advice for mamas who are interested in starting their own businesses. Read on for an interview with Amy and details for how to win a package of her fun and inspiring breastfeeding prints!
What inspired you to create your breastfeeding designs?
Breastfeeding is a cause near and dear to my heart (quite literally, as I am a breastfeeding mother myself). Before I had my daughter, I was only vaguely aware of what breastfeeding entailed, or that there were so many people and places available to me that I could go for help and support. I saw more and more mothers giving up, or not trying at all, because of a lack of education and support. Knowing what a wonderful experience it could be for mother and child I wanted other mothers to have the same opportunity-to educate, encourage and support other women in their breastfeeding journeys.
When my daughter was about a year old I found a wonderful local organization called the Nursing Mother's Advisory Council (NMAC) that shares these goals. NMAC (www.nursingmoms.net) is a non-profit, volunteer organization serving areas of Bucks, Montgomery and Philadelphia counties in Pennsylvania and is comprised of a group of trained volunteer women who have breastfed their children and who wish to help others have a positive nursing experience. NMAC volunteers offer support and counseling, free of charge, without judgment. They offer a bi-annual training class for new peer counselors, which I completed last May. It seemed a natural extension to combine my two passions-design and breastfeeding advocacy-so I created some materials specifically for nursing mama's.
Share some of your personal breastfeeding experience with us.Breastfeeding has been a wonderful experience for me and my daughter. Going in, I wasn't what you would call "gung ho" about the whole thing. I figured I would try it but honestly didn't expect to stick with it. No one was more surprised than me that we ended up exclusively breastfeeding with such success.
Share some of your personal breastfeeding experience with us.
When she was about 5 months old, I had to have a mass removed from my right breast (thankfully, benign). Faced with the possibility of having to stop nursing while recovering, I found that I was more determined than ever to continue. My doctor was very supportive and we were able to get through the surgery and recovery while continuing to breastfeed. Now, I'm breastfeeding a toddler and couldn't imagine having done it any other way. My daughter is happy, healthy and well-adjusted, and I have no doubt that this is in no small part to our positive breastfeeding relationship.
Any advice for new breastfeeding mothers?Breastfeeding is natural, but it doesn't always come naturally to all mothers and babies (I know it didn't for me). Educate yourself as much as you can beforehand so you know what to expect. Talk to other nursing moms, read books and articles, watch videos, and consider taking a breastfeeding class (offered by most hospitals) some time in your third trimester. Enlist the support of your doctor-make sure he or she knows your intent to breastfeed and that they are supportive. Establish a support system: your baby's father, friends, family, and other nursing mothers.
Any advice for new breastfeeding mothers?
Breastfeeding can be challenging and time consuming-especially in the first few weeks-and you'll want to have others around to ask questions and provide emotional support. Don't be shy about seeking help when you need it, whether it be from friends, family, a peer counselor or a lactation consultant. You can seek out a support group in your area-even if breastfeeding is going well, these groups are a wonderful way to connect with other nursing mothers and babies. Lastly, be aware that it does get easier as you and your little one get used to each other and find your rhythm.
Any advice for mamas that want to start their own business?For me, what worked was going with what I knew (graphic design) and combining it with the things I love. My designs tend to reflect things that I enjoy in my own life: pop culture, family, breastfeeding. I believe this makes my designs more personal, and, in turn, more successful. I did a lot of research and started slow, learning from others and from my own experiences how to fine tune my shop and my products.
Any advice for mamas that want to start their own business?
It's a continual learning curve for me. Get yourself out there and advertise yourself, both on the web and in "real life". If people can't find you, they can't buy from you. I enjoy what I do, which for me is the key to not giving up, even when things are slow. To that end I would also say to not be discouraged if things start off slowly. I didn't make my first sale for a few months after I opened my shop, but business has steadily picked up since then. I may not be ready to quit my day job, but there's something immensely satisfying about selling my own original designs.
Thanks Amy! Check out her prints, birth announcements, party invitations and Christmas designs at her Etsy shop: www.faithhopetrick.etsy.com.
In addition, Faith Hope Trick is offering two Breastfed readers a chance to win one of two amazing breastfeeding print packages:
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| Package #1 |
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| Package #2 |
Package 1:
One (1) "Start Your Day With Two Jugs of Milk" print, 8x12"
One (1) "Start Your Day With Two Jugs of Milk" print, 8x12"
One (1) "Keep Calm and Nurse On" print, 5x7
Twenty (20) "Thank You for Nursing in Public" cards, 2x3.5"
Package 2:
One (1) "Keep Calm and Nurse On" print, 8x12"
One (1) "Breastfeeding is a Mother's Gift" print (pink), 5x7
Twenty (20) "Thank You for Nursing in Public" cards, 2x3.5"
Twenty (20) "Thank You for Nursing in Public" cards, 2x3.5"
Package 2:
One (1) "Keep Calm and Nurse On" print, 8x12"
One (1) "Breastfeeding is a Mother's Gift" print (pink), 5x7
Twenty (20) "Thank You for Nursing in Public" cards, 2x3.5"
Follow directions on the Rafflecopter to enter. Don't forget to click "I Did This!" after completing a step. Good luck!
Thursday, November 24, 2011
giving thanks- breastfeeding style
I have so many things to be thankful for- a roof over my head, access to an unending supply of running, clean water, food to feed my beautiful family, and more. But what am I thankful for as a breastfeeding mother?
1. The double electric breast pump. How did women do it before this invention? My mother talks about using a single manual pump and what a pain it was. I know there are some who still use this method, but plug me in with that dual power pump any day.
2. An understanding and supportive workplace. I know, there is a law that mothers should be allowed to pump. But let's face it, there are some horrible workplaces out there. Are the women working ten hours in the slaughterhouse or 18 hours in the fields allowed time to pump and access to comfy pumping places? I don't think so. I am thankful that my employers and co-workers support me in my quest to continue to provide my baby the breast milk she needs. No one has ever said to me, "Just give her formula." It's just as well, they wouldn't want to see my reaction!
3. The internet. I've said it before, and I'll say it yet again- I'm thankful for the boatload of resources and support that are available right here inside my little laptop. Thousands of women there to give me a positive word if I need it. Tons of pages giving me the information that I am looking for. World wide breastfeeding mama web, I'm so thankful I found you.
1. The double electric breast pump. How did women do it before this invention? My mother talks about using a single manual pump and what a pain it was. I know there are some who still use this method, but plug me in with that dual power pump any day.
2. An understanding and supportive workplace. I know, there is a law that mothers should be allowed to pump. But let's face it, there are some horrible workplaces out there. Are the women working ten hours in the slaughterhouse or 18 hours in the fields allowed time to pump and access to comfy pumping places? I don't think so. I am thankful that my employers and co-workers support me in my quest to continue to provide my baby the breast milk she needs. No one has ever said to me, "Just give her formula." It's just as well, they wouldn't want to see my reaction!
3. The internet. I've said it before, and I'll say it yet again- I'm thankful for the boatload of resources and support that are available right here inside my little laptop. Thousands of women there to give me a positive word if I need it. Tons of pages giving me the information that I am looking for. World wide breastfeeding mama web, I'm so thankful I found you.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
nip update
As you know, nursing in public (NIP) has been a struggle for me. At first, it made me extremely nervous, uncomfortable, and stressed. I found myself not wanting to leave the house because I knew that I would have to feed Baby S. I went out of my way to find secluded areas. I fought with Baby S to keep scarves and blankets over her head.
As the time has gone on, I've found myself more and more comfortable. Now, at 7 months, I don't think twice about it most of the time. I never hesitate to leave the house. I don't even bother with scarves or blankets. If I look for a secluded area it's only to ensure that Baby S will eat and not stop every two seconds to stare at the activity going on around her.
Take today- on the agenda was a bus ride to the modern art museum for family day, walk in the park and dinner out with the two babies and two stepchildren (ages 8 and 12). I only thought about breastfeeding when I made sure I put on a nursing bra.
As the time has gone on, I've found myself more and more comfortable. Now, at 7 months, I don't think twice about it most of the time. I never hesitate to leave the house. I don't even bother with scarves or blankets. If I look for a secluded area it's only to ensure that Baby S will eat and not stop every two seconds to stare at the activity going on around her.
Take today- on the agenda was a bus ride to the modern art museum for family day, walk in the park and dinner out with the two babies and two stepchildren (ages 8 and 12). I only thought about breastfeeding when I made sure I put on a nursing bra.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
sweet baby caresses
I'm in love.
In love with those soft little baby fingers. When we're laying down, getting ready for a nap, or ready for bed. She's eating, eyes half closed.
She runs her little fingers all over me- my hands, my arms, my breasts, my belly, my face. Sometimes searching, but most of the time caressing. Light little touches, feathery little caresses. Sometimes stopping and gripping a finger, a bulge of skin, and then continuing on.
One day these little fingers might pet a dog or rabbit this way. Her dollies. But today they are caressing me. She eats, and cuddles, and loves me- as I lay there, and feel her touch, and love her.
Estoy enamorada de ella- I'm in love.
In love with those soft little baby fingers. When we're laying down, getting ready for a nap, or ready for bed. She's eating, eyes half closed.
She runs her little fingers all over me- my hands, my arms, my breasts, my belly, my face. Sometimes searching, but most of the time caressing. Light little touches, feathery little caresses. Sometimes stopping and gripping a finger, a bulge of skin, and then continuing on.
One day these little fingers might pet a dog or rabbit this way. Her dollies. But today they are caressing me. She eats, and cuddles, and loves me- as I lay there, and feel her touch, and love her.
Estoy enamorada de ella- I'm in love.
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Friday, August 19, 2011
Sunday, August 14, 2011
breastfeeding certificate
Have you been breastfeeding for six months? Two years?
Then reward yourself!
Take a look at this breastfeeding certificates offered by Dar de Mamar. One celebrates six months of breastfeeding, the other two years. The certificates are in Spanish, but the sentiment is the same: Congratulations! You did it!
Translation: I, __________ award and thank my mother, _____________ because she gave me the breast and only the breast for my first six months of life.
Then reward yourself!
Take a look at this breastfeeding certificates offered by Dar de Mamar. One celebrates six months of breastfeeding, the other two years. The certificates are in Spanish, but the sentiment is the same: Congratulations! You did it!
Translation: I, __________ award and thank my mother, _____________ because she gave me the breast and only the breast for my first six months of life.
baby friendly canadian campaign
The goal of this organization is to support parents in breastfeeding and provide information and resources.
Why the posters exist, according to Baby Friendly:
You’ll see plenty of strange things….breastfeeding isn’t one of them is a fun, humorous campaign designed to promote public acceptance of breastfeeding. The posters touch on the positive health benefits of breastfeeding, but focus more on minimizing the stigma about breastfeeding in public. It’s all about building confidence in women to breastfeed! Through this public awareness campaign we hope to encourage the families of pregnant women and the communities in which they live to support new mothers and give them the confidence they need to breastfeed anytime, anywhere.
Friday, August 5, 2011
iconic japanese breastfeeding
We're almost off on our trip! Baby S and I are going to New York for a week.
I probably won't be posting while we are gone, so I will leave you with this beautiful image.
Enjoy the end of World Breastfeeding Week!
I probably won't be posting while we are gone, so I will leave you with this beautiful image.
Enjoy the end of World Breastfeeding Week!
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Monday, July 25, 2011
dar la teta es dar vida
To give the breast is to give life.
This beautiful video is a public information broadcast from Puerto Rico.
summer breastfeeding inspiration
Monday, July 18, 2011
inspirational image
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| by Kate Hansen Read more about artist Kate Hansen here, at Blacktating: Breastfeeding News and Views from a Mom of Color. |
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